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DEFINE YOURSELF, DEFINE SUCCESS
Who are you? This isn’t about your job or title. I’ll go first: Born in Western MD Always drawn to teams, from sports to the military Married with two beautiful kids I believe we must elevate ourselves to better lead our teams The more I learn, the more I realize there’s so much more to…
Read More SPEAKING YOUR TRUTH
Are you speaking your truth so loudly that your tribe can hear you? Fulfilling moments arise when we connect with ‘our people,’ those we’re here to help. How do you communicate your authentic Blueprint, letting them know you exist? Consider this: 1. Your Blueprint is the combination of your core values, purpose, passions, skills and…
Read More EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP AND EMBRACING UNCERTAINTY
Here’s why it’s a mistake to believe that certainty is the key to effective leadership. In fact, the first half of my career groomed me to think this way: Demanding expertise. Upholding self-reliance. Reluctant to ask for help. Never admitting ignorance. Insisting on knowing all the answers. But what if embracing uncertainty and relinquishing the…
Read More EMOTIONS AND RESILIENCE
Reflecting on your emotions isn’t always easy, but it’s a game-changer for growth. Here’s how leaning into your emotions can fuel your development: Use unease as a cue for potential personal and professional development. Dive into the reasons behind your emotional reactions to discover and change habitual patterns. Accepting vulnerability can open new paths for…
Read More IS THE FAMILIAR PATH HOLDING YOU BACK?
Is the familiar path holding you back? Common sayings like: “This has always worked before.” “We’ve always done it this way.” “I must be doing something right.” …might be comfort zones limiting our growth. Progress demands evolving strategies and mindsets. What worked in the past might not fit the future. Adaptability is key. When did…
Read More THE EXPERTISE TRAP
The expertise trap: when new skills aren’t enough. Does this sound familiar? I’ve mastered my craft I’ve achieved success at the highest level Rinse and repeat for continued success Suddenly, you’re in a role and level of responsibility that’s entirely new. Like a fish out of water, what worked before no longer does. You’re at…
Read More LOSE THE FOMO
Know your Blueprint. Lose the FOMO. Own your journey. FOMO (Fear of Missing Out) can derail even the most driven among us. You see peers: Climbing the ladder of success (society-defined) Attending conferences Closing deals It’s easy to wonder, “Why haven’t I done that yet?” But here’s the game-changer: Your Blueprint. When you’re laser-focused on…
Read More WHEN YOUR DEFAULT PLAYER IS THE WRONG ONE
What happens when your default ‘player’ is the wrong one for the game? Here’s a lesson I learned. About three months ago, I faced an unavoidable interpersonal conflict. My initial instinct was to resolve the situation by restoring harmony-a huge part of my Blueprint. Upon reflection, I realized there were other players to consider: Assessment…
Read More A FULFILLED AND PURPOSEFUL LIFE
Here’s the #1 piece of advice I’d give my 20-year-old self to lead a fulfilled and purposeful life. Discover what truly matters to you and forge your own path. I call it Blueprint. By deeply understanding what resonates with your core, you gain: Clarity Confidence Empowerment Never settle for “this is the way it has…
Read More YOUR BLUEPRINT
How well do you know your own Blueprint, and how can it make you more resilient? Understanding your Blueprint – your core purpose, cause, passions, values, skills – can have a profound impact on your ability to navigate life’s challenges. Consider these benefits: ✅ Clarity of purpose gives you direction: helping you stay focused on…
Read More WHAT TYPE OF LEADER ARE YOU?
Have you ever stopped to consider what type of leader you are? With over 20 years of leadership experience, I’ve learned that self-reflection is key to improving leadership skills. Here are a few questions to ask yourself when reflecting on your leadership style: What values guide my leadership approach? How do I communicate with my…
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